If you’ve ever said “We’re awkward in front of the camera,” you’re not alone. It’s one of the first things couples tell me when they inquire—and the good news is, it’s totally normal. You’re not professional models, and I never expect you to be.
That’s why one of my biggest priorities as a wedding photographer is making you feel comfortable and confident. My job isn’t just to take beautiful photos—it’s to create an environment where you feel free to be yourselves.
Here’s exactly how I do that.
1. I Start with Connection, Not Posing
Before I even pick up the camera, I want to understand who you are—how you interact, what makes you laugh, what kind of energy you share. This connection helps me create images that feel like you, not a version of you posed for the lens.
Rather than giving stiff direction, I’ll guide you with prompts or movement that naturally draws out emotion. Think walking hand-in-hand, leaning into each other, or sharing an inside joke—not “say cheese.”
2. You’re Not Performing, You’re Experiencing
My approach is rooted in storytelling and presence. I’m not documenting a performance—I’m capturing a real moment between two people who care deeply about each other.
When you shift your focus from trying to look a certain way to simply being with each other, the magic happens. That’s when you get the kinds of photos where you can feel the connection—not just see it.
3. Gentle Direction that Feels Natural
Yes, I’ll guide you. But I won’t micromanage every movement.
If your hand placement feels off or the light isn’t hitting just right, I’ll adjust it in a way that still feels organic. I’ll give you small cues to help you move or engage, like:
- “Walk toward me like you’re on vacation, no rush.”
- “Lean your head on their shoulder and close your eyes for a second.”
- “Whisper something ridiculous in their ear.”
The result? Photos that look effortless—and feel authentic.
4. Movement > Static Posing
Still poses can feel stiff (and look it, too). That’s why I often build in movement, even if it’s subtle.
Whether it’s walking through the surf, swaying to music, or adjusting each other’s outfits, movement helps you stay present and relaxed. It also allows me to capture the micro-moments in between—those little smiles, glances, and gestures that make the gallery feel alive.
5. I Match Your Energy
Are you playful? Romantic? Low-key and introverted? I pay attention to how you naturally interact and tailor my approach to suit that dynamic.
I’m not going to force you into a vibe that doesn’t feel like you. My role is to reflect your story, not rewrite it.
6. Trust is Everything
When you trust your photographer, you let your guard down. That’s why I focus so much on building that trust before the session even begins.
From our first email to the day we shoot, I’m creating a space where you feel supported, informed, and seen. Because when you feel relaxed, the photos show it.
Real Couples, Real Results
Don’t just take my word for it. These couples started off nervous—and ended up with photos that felt natural, joyful, and completely themselves:
Want Photos that Feel Like You?
If you’re worried about feeling awkward or stiff on camera, I see you—and I’ve got you. My job is to guide you through an experience that feels relaxed, fun, and meaningful.
The result? Photos that look and feel like the best version of your real relationship.
Let’s connect and create something beautiful together.
